Many people consider these small acts to be “special”, however we believe at MTN Matchmaking that they should be the baseline and standard for success. The “single life” and dating circle is full of mediocre human beings. Things like chivalry, etiquette, class, courtesy, and respect are as important as headshots. One stint on the dating apps or a night on the Long Island bar scene will remind you how miserable and superficial the majority of interactions can be. At MTN Matchmaking we pre-screen our singles to make sure they meet a number of criteria before matching them with someone. Our dating coaches work with clients to help them be the best they can be.
Chivalry is a code of conduct where men emphasize courtesy, respect, and honor. It is often associated with the Middle Ages, but is still in play today by the most attractive men.
Here are 10 tips:
- Open doors for women. This is a classic act of chivalry that is still appreciated by many women.
- Pull out chairs for women. This is another simple gesture that shows you are a gentleman.
- Walk on the outside of the sidewalk. This is a safety precaution that also shows you are putting the woman’s needs first.
- Give up your seat to women. This is especially important if you are on a crowded bus or train.
- Pay for dates. This is not always necessary, but it is a nice gesture that shows you are willing to take care of the woman.
- Introduce her to people. When you are out with a woman, make sure to introduce her to your friends and family.
- Help her with her coat. This is a small act of kindness that can make a big difference.
- Walk her to her door. This is a way to show her that you care about her safety and well-being.
- Be a good listener. One of the best ways to be chivalrous is to simply listen to what the woman has to say.
- Be respectful. This is the most important rule of all. Always treat women with respect, regardless of their age, appearance, or social status.
Here are some additional tips for being chivalrous:
Be mindful of your language. Avoid using sexist or derogatory terms.
Be aware of your surroundings. If you see a woman who is being harassed or threatened, offer your help.
Stand up for women’s rights. Challenge sexism and discrimination whenever you see it.
Be a role model for other men. Show them that chivalry is still alive and well.
Contact us if you’re looking for love and you are ready to meet someone normal, and compatible. No ghosting, no craziness, no nonsense.
We would love to speak with you about your search for love! We already have 3,000 of the finest singles here on Long Island and NYC that have all passed our screening process. We also launched our National Match program this summer and have singles all over the country ready to meet you.
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