Welcome to MTN Matchmaking’s monthly dating advice column, where each month we navigate the labyrinth of love, relationships, and everything in between. Whether you’re searching for the secret to a successful first date, struggling with communication in a long-term relationship, or curious about the intricacies of modern romance, you’ve come to the right place. From practical tips to thoughtful insights, I will help you unravel the mysteries of the heart and find your way to fulfilling connections. So, grab a seat, pour yourself a glass of wine, and let’s embark on this journey together!
In this dating advice series, I will need to hear from you as well. Please email me questions or concerns you may have about finding love this summer. I look forward to hearing from you, Long Island singles!! Contact me by visiting our Contact Us page.
Let the Summer Sparks Fly!
By embracing these simple guidelines, you’ll be well on your way to finding love this summer…
For one week, concentrate on the laws of attraction and putting out into the universe exactly what you’re looking for. Tell yourself every morning and every night what it is that will make sparks fly in your own love life. If you haven’t done so already, read the book “The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne as it is an easy read and will be a reminder of all the things that will help with the laws of attraction.
Now you are ready to take a step further and start manifesting who the person you desire is. You don’t need to know how or when you will find him or her, just know that they are out there and the universe will take care of the rest. Your job is to simply convince your mind that you are already in love and the Sparks are already flying in your love life. By doing this, your actions will follow suit and you will love the feeling of how great being in love makes you feel and you will do all the things necessary to keep that love alive.
Next, just make sure you are doing your part in manifesting love because we can’t just sit home on the couch and expect the universe and/or God to have someone knock on our door… we first need to love ourselves for all of the wonderful things that we bring to the table. Every day is a blessing, so make sure you know all of the terrific characteristics you possess because we all know you have to love yourself first before anyone else can love you.
Lastly, manifest health and being health conscious into this equation which will help our self-confidence, allow us to love ourselves even more, and therefore make it very easy for others to attract us. Remember, this is not conceit. This is being aware of all of our blessings that God has bestowed upon us and striving every day to be our best selves. When we feel our best, we look our best, and therefore we will attract the best. Let me know how the sparks are flying in July after following this. Add these simple steps. It worked for me, and I know it will work for you as well. Let the romance manifest and let the sparks fly.
Finding love in the summer is like discovering a hidden gem on a sunlit beach—unexpected, exhilarating, and full of promise. As the days grow longer and the nights warmer, the season invites us to step out of our routines and embrace new experiences. Whether you’re exploring a local festival, enjoying a picnic in the park, or simply taking a stroll along the shoreline, summer offers countless opportunities to connect with others and let romance blossom.
Here are 6 Tips for Finding Love in the Summer:
- Get Out and Explore: Take advantage of the numerous outdoor activities and events that summer has to offer. Attend festivals, concerts, farmers’ markets, and community events. These settings provide a relaxed atmosphere where you can meet new people who share your interests.
- Embrace Spontaneity: Summer is the perfect time to be spontaneous. Say yes to last-minute plans, try new activities, and go on adventures. You never know when or where you might meet someone special.
- Join Summer Classes or Groups: Sign up for a summer class, join a sports league, or participate in a hobby group. Shared interests can be a great foundation for building connections and sparking romance.
- Travel and Meet New People: If you’re traveling, whether it’s a weekend getaway or a longer vacation, be open to meeting new people. Strike up conversations with fellow travelers or locals, and you might find a connection that transcends borders.
- Host or Attend Summer Parties: Barbecues, pool parties, and beach gatherings are excellent ways to meet new people in a relaxed and fun setting. If you’re hosting, encourage your friends to bring along someone new.
- Be Open and Positive: Approach each day with a positive attitude and an open heart. Smile, make eye contact, and be approachable. Positivity is attractive and can help draw others to you.
Remember, summer is a time of growth and new beginnings. Embrace the season with an open heart, and you just might find love in the most unexpected places. Enjoy the journey, savor the moments, and let the warmth of summer light the way to your next romantic adventure!
About Maureen and MTN Matchmaking
Maureen Tara Nelson has more than 23 years of experience and has personally matched over 1,000 clients across Long Island and Manhattan. In 2024, MTN Matchmaking Services began taking on national clients too! If you’re ready for love and commitment, MTN Matchmaking Services are here for you.
We know the two components of finding the perfect match are Chemistry and Compatibility. MTN Matchmaking, Inc. will show you why internet dating is ineffective in achieving those romantic goals and why Matchmaking Services are your best option for finding your perfect soulmate.
If you’re ready to take the next step in your romantic journey, reach out to Maureen today by calling 516-444-2861. Let us help you find the love you deserve!
