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The Rule of Threes



Following the Rule of Threes


Following the rule of threes can be of beneficial use when dating and in your love life. In order to find ‘the one’ on your own, using this method could be useful. But when you come to MTN Matchmaking this method becomes obsolete and altered.

1. Three Dates

It usually takes three dates for you to know if this person is good enough for you to keep them in your life. The three-date rule is also vital to know if this person is deserving of your body, commonly known as the rule to follow before having sex with them. Some people move faster or slower than others. Do whatever you feel is right, but keep in mind that you want to utilize this time in a potential relationship to get to know one another. Having sex right away might spoil that because it distracts from truly getting to know one another’s personality.

If you are still interested after three dates, then you should continue dating and see where it goes. Remember, these rules are not set in stone, so feel free to adjust it to your lifestyle because we are all not the same. Sometimes it will take longer to get to know somebody. So, make sure to give them a chance before breaking it off.

2. Three Months

It takes around three months of dating to know if this person is worth your love. Around this time in the dating process, you should have an idea if you love this person or not. If by the four-month mark, you feel that you do not love this person, it might be a promising idea to let them go and move on. We do not have all the time in the world, moving on will allow you to see more people primarily and possibly find ‘the one.’ If by any chance that you feel that this person is worth a couple more months to date, do it, because we have to trust our gut. If your gut is telling you they aren’t the one, then, please, let them move on.

3. Three Years 

It should take around three years to know if you want to be with this person for the rest of your life. If you come to MTN Matchmaking, you will know by one year. Most people who come to MTN Matchmaking, who date for over 8 months get married. We have over 1500 success stories to our name from our 18 years of experience, so trust us, we know what we’re talking about. Dating for over three months is a big deal, so make sure to think about the end goal, marriage. Marrying somebody isn’t some flippant idea, it’s serious. So, if you want to be successful in love, come to MTN Matchmaking where we take it seriously, while also having fun!




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